The catheterization showed several of my dad's arteries were clogged, so he was moved to
a bigger hospital a couple of days ago. We met with a cardiac surgeon Wednesday night, and
he recommended bypass surgery, but said that there weren't any immediate openings in the
schedule. He did say, though, that there were often cancellations, so he recommended we
be prepared for surgery at any time.
"Any time" turned out to be Thursday morning. There was a cancellation, and
they got him in mid-morning yesterday. I got to the hospital about 6:45 a.m., and spent
the day and evening there with my mother and sister; my brother was there off and on, and
Bob was there for part of the day.
It's a big hospital, with ICU capacity of 32, so the waiting room is large, and broken
up into a couple of areas. There were several families hanging out in the back area,
with stacks of jigsaw puzzles and coloring books for the kids, and bags of snack food.
Many families were apparently living there--there were folded blankets and pillows at
the ends of couches, which were accepted as meaning that those couches were "taken,"
i.e., to be used as beds during the night by the people who owned the bedding.
My sister met one young woman whose husband had been in ICU for over a month. She didn't
have any family in town, but she said she'd been "adopted" by one of the large families
who had also been there awhile. Kind of an interesting community, I thought. For sad
reasons, of course, but everyone seemed to be mostly stoic and friendly, answering phones
when the attendant was called away, bringing cookies and snacks to share.
The surgery (a quadruple bypass) took longer than we expected, and we passed the
time by talking, walking (pacing), placing phone calls, going down to the cafeteria for
meals, etc. It was
a long day. We were able to go in and see Dad after surgery, but he hadn't woken up completely from
the anesthesia by early evening. His nurse said that it might be another hour, so Mom
decided we might as well go home.
When I hadn't heard anything by this morning, I called and talked to a nurse in ICU,
who said that Daddy was doing well, that he had woken up, and was doing fine, and
should be moved out of ICU and into a regular room sometime later today, which was a huge
relief. Bob just called and said he's going to head over to the hospital and check on
things, and see if my mom needs anything, which is also a relief, and a blessing.